How to improve your self-esteem in 5 steps

5 steps to try to start to improve your self-esteem

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Some people spend their lives worrying about what other people think about them and spend all their time trying to figure out what everyone else expects of you. You can't possibly believe that you're doing what you want with your life when you are always walking around worried about the judgments of others are putting on you. Click here to start at the beginning of this series. 

We all worry about what other people think of us. Some people worry about it so much that they never take the time, to be honest with themselves. You need to take time out to yourself and ask yourself are you happy with who you are and what you represent. Instead, they decide in accordance with other people's wishes not their own.

You can't please them all


Everyone always tends to worry more about what other people think of us that we never take time, to be honest with yourselves. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself if you are happy with who you are and what you represent?

Do you take the time to realize there are two sides to every story? Do you realize there are two ways to look at every situation? You need to recognize. the good and bad, but we tend to get what we look for.

Our attitude determines and dictates what we get out of your lives.


Test yourself

.Are you negative or do you have a positive? outlook on living? Are you a negative or positive person? What does it boil down to? Those who have "it" develop confidence, know they are good but not only good for something more. Not one drop of my self-worth depends on acceptances. According to what I've learned when you are searching for happiness on the outside, you will never find it on the inside. Be who you are, not what the world wants you to be.


Here's some advice on finding yourself and being yourself.

All you have to do is start with yourself and make a better ou. If you get better, people in your life gets better, the start to make the community better, and it grows with eventually, others in the world will follow.

Here's my insight on the experiences I grew to become until I started to think about my own identity. As it happened to be, I looked deep inside and realized I had no idea who, what, how, and where I was doing in this world without having others tell me.

After spending time away from my family, alone with myself from any other distractions or influences around me. I decided that it was time to have some neutral person guide me as I also started to make a huge turnaround and learn to know me and what I thought of myself. I respect others but not through getting it through comprising who I've become now. The respect from others will come as you learn to stand up and stick to your beliefs and practice what you preach.Remember Always remember you are braver than you believe and stronger than you see as well as smarter than you think. There will be plenty of difficult obstacles in your path, but don't let it stop you. Always remember never stop trying to give up on yourself when you feel like it's just too hard.

"Be careful how you are talking to yourself because you are always listening."

~Lisa L. Hayes


Self-esteem Resolutions:

No one will get out of this world alive.

RESOLVE:


 Therefore in the year to come to maintain a sense of values.
Take care of yourself. Good health is everyone's major source of wealth. Without it, happiness is almost impossible. 

RESOLVE:

To be cheerful and helpful. People will repay you in kind. Avoid angry and abrasive persons. They are generally vengeful. Avoid zealots. They are generally humorless.

RESOLVE: 
To listen more and to talk less. No one ever learns anything by talking. Be chary of giving advice. Wise men don't need it, and fools won"t heed it.

RESOLVE:
To be tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and the wrong.

Sometimes, in life, you will have been all of these. Do not equate money with success. There are many successful money-makers who are miserable failures as human beings. What counts most about success is how a man achieves it.

RESOLVE:

To love next year someone you didn't love this year. Love is the most enriching ingredient of life. 
---Walter Scott